I have really awesome parents. Even as kids, my parents were adament about being fair to my sister and I. For Christmas, our gifts were always of the same dollar value, making sure that one wasn’t cheated.
As adults, it’s not such a big deal. Well, to us it’s not, but to them it still is.
When I was moving into this place, I asked my parents for some help financially to pay for the movers. They didn’t blink. My dad responded that they’re always having my sister over for dinner and that they’re always spending money on Sarah, so helping pay for my move wasn’t a big deal to them. I hate asking my parents for money. I won’t ask my mom. For some reason, I always ask my dad.
The other night, I was talking to my dad on the phone and he said that he was going to be sending me a check. My sister just bought a house and needed to buy a new refrigerator. Well, my mom wanted a new refrigerator that has ice and water on the door, even though hers is only about three years old. They decided to buy themselves a new one and give the “old” one to my sister. My dad said that the check would be for about half of what the refrigerator cost. Being honest, I told my dad that I didn’t expect a check but I totally appreciated it. I hadn’t given it much thought beyond that.
Zoom in on this morning and I checked my bank account balance and had a bit of a panic attack. I made a mistake of some type and found my balance to be FAR below what it should be. I called my landlord and told him not to cash the rent check just yet because it would bounce. That would suck. I still have to figure out what’s wrong with the account and will probably have to beg the bank manager to refund a few overdraft fees. At least I’m not going to starve this week.
When I checked my mail this afternoon, there was a check from my parents. It was twice as much as what my dad told me it would be. The timing was flawless. I’ll be able to pay my rent as planned, pay down a credit card, and still buy Reggie some treats.
Parents have a funny way of doing things with perfect timing.